每日归档： 2005年6月1日

Time and time again, I’ve seen people rely on expert advice and find the advice doesn’t work for them. Then they beat themselves up that they must be incompetent because “it should work.” Almost every week now, I receive at least one email telling me such a story, often ending with a line like, “Am I just too stupid / broken / antisocial / undisciplined / weak?” 继续阅读Trust Yourself, Not the Experts

我一次又一次地见过，人们会依赖专家建议，结果发现所得建议对自己并不管用。然后这些人还自我打击，以为肯定是个人能力不足，因为他们觉得“建议本该管用”。几乎每个星期，我都会至少收到一封述说这种故事的电邮，邮件结尾还常有一句这样的话：“我是不是太愚蠢/无能/不懂社交/缺乏自律/过于软弱了？” 继续阅读相信自己，而非专家